Decision to marry: important points

The decision of marriage is an important step for every person. When you think about your spouse, many dreams come to your mind. Sometimes these dreams come true, and sometimes not. Since you are going to spend your entire life with this person, it is necessary to discuss some important issues before marriage for a happy life. Be it a love marriage or an arranged marriage, you should ask your partner certain questions.

questions asked before marriage

Economic situation:
It is necessary to ask many questions to your partner before marriage, but many times people hesitate. You may be hesitant to talk about financial issues because you don’t want your partner to misunderstand you. Still, it is important to have this discussion to avoid problems in the future. It’s important to talk about savings, spending, and investments so that both partners have similar financial vision and goals (e.g. home, kids, retirement).

career planning

career:
It is very important to discuss career plans with your partner before marriage. This includes knowing whether both partners want to continue their careers after marriage, sharing household responsibilities, and having clarity on issues like relocation for work.

discussing past relationships

Previous Relationships:
Discussing past relationships with your partner is essential to increase trust and understanding. This conversation should be honest, in which you share your experiences and lessons, and not criticize former partners. This will not create insecurity in the existing relationship.

family planning

Family Planning:
Some people want children immediately after marriage, while others are not ready for it. This may lead to disagreement. Therefore, before marriage, discuss with your partner when to start thinking about family planning.