Are you the one making more efforts?

Do you feel like the efforts in your relationship are only coming from your side? Whether it’s initiating a conversation, making a call, or planning a meeting—you’re the one doing it all? If yes, then it is possible that your partner is not emotionally attached to you. Such people are not bad, but their distance makes your relationship unbalanced. Over time, this distance can make you feel alone, confused, and sad.

avoid matters of the heart

Such partners often avoid the depths of the heart. When you want to open up to them, you are only met with ‘yes’, ‘ok’ or silence. As the conversation goes deeper, they change the topic, because it is difficult for them to express their feelings.

Distance on future discussion

When it comes to future plans, they become even more uneasy. They hesitate when it comes to hanging out together, introducing them to their family or giving a name to their relationship. They say they just want to live in the moment, which is often a sign of being afraid of commitment.

sometimes near, sometimes far

Their love is also not stable. Sometimes they pay a lot of attention, then suddenly disappear for several days. Due to this you always remain in uncertainty and worry.

taking your feelings for granted

If you share your feelings and they brush it off by saying ‘overthink it’ or ‘don’t do drama’, that’s a serious warning sign.

closeness but no heart connection

Many times there is physical closeness, but there is no connection with the heart. Remember, a true relationship is one where your partner stands with you emotionally too.