Valentine’s Day usually brings the spotlight to romance, gifts and public declarations of love. But for actor, presenter and Miss India Universe 2003 Nikita Anand, the conversation around love goes much deeper. As a practising Vedic astrologer, she believes lasting relationships are shaped less by grand gestures and more by inner alignment.

Having spent years in front of the camera as an actress, television presenter and live host, Nikita has built a career on communication and connection. In recent years, her study and practice of Vedic astrology has added a more introspective dimension to how she understands human bonds. For her, Valentine’s Day is not only about celebrating relationships, but also about examining the self.

“Venus is the architect of relationships. The strength, condition and combination of Venus in an individual’s horoscope manifests as their love life. But Venus is also the choices you make and how you speak. Like they say, charity begins at home,” remarks Nikita.

“To improve the quality of your relationships, begin with yourself, look deeply at the choices you’re making and how you are interacting with the world. Refinement strengthens Venus,” she adds.

According to her, many people look for compatibility in others without first building clarity within themselves. Astrology, she explains, can act as a mirror, helping individuals recognise patterns in communication, emotional responses and expectations.

This perspective connects closely with her work as a mentor and coach through the Nikita Anand Performance Studio, her online training platform focused on communication, presence and personality development. There, she often stresses self-awareness, thoughtful speech and emotional balance. The same qualities that make someone a strong presenter also support healthier relationships.

At a time when dating apps and fast-paced lifestyles can make relationships feel disposable, Nikita’s message is grounded. Love is not only about finding the right person. It is about becoming the right person.

This Valentine’s Day, her advice shifts the focus from stars in the sky, to alignment within. For those willing to reflect, she suggests that the real starting point of romance may be self-refinement.